Sometimes a man’s purpose in a woman’s life is to help her become a better woman for some one else. A few months ago i was that girl who was convinced love is a war but now i also know you cannot fight alone. I have also learnt true love is not self seeking. You want the other party happy even if it is with some one else. Love covers a multitude of sins. If the other party start seeing the faults in you then maybe it’s a sign their love for you is fickle. Love is patient, love is kind, love is forgiving. To have this kind of love first your relationship with God has to be right, you have to love yourself and accept yourself then you can be able to love unconditionally. And letting go will be easy not because you do not love the other person but you love them enough to let them free. Because you are secure and you know your worth is not defined by someone but God. Personally i would rather loose someone if its not God’s will than do something that displeases God. If something or someone draws me away from God i do not need them in my life. If you are going through a heart break you have a choice to sulk in misery or to see it as a blessing in disguse. The choice is yours. Never forget God cares and loves you unconditionally.