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Good bye

If by my presence I caused more hurt
Than that I caused while we were apart
Then adieu old friend, adieu
I must say goodbye to you

If in my silence I spoke more truth
Than when my words came through
I hope you listened to my silence
Unlike when you eschewed my words

If in being here I was away more
Than when I was away before
Then this goodbye I must say
Because I cant stay here anymore

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Posted by on December 12, 2015 in poem, Uncategorized


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I thought


I thought I had found the ideal friend,
But it only took about a week for that to end,
I thought there was hope left in my life,
But as it went round, it was only further strife,
I though for once I had executed something right,
But I speedily amended that oversight,
I thought I wasn’t ineffective or a bore,
But I was all that and even more,
I thought there was a rationale to my days,
But that was only a very dumpy phase,
I thought you weren’t like all the rest,
But like those before, you fell short to the test,
I thought you would stay with me, at least for a bit,
But you chose it was better just to quit,
I thought life was worth living for a moment in time,
But the life I needed could never be mine,
I thought the starvation inside had been fed,
But now I know, I was just being misled.
And now I think I’ve found another ideal friend,
How long before my heart is conned out again?

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Posted by on December 18, 2014 in Uncategorized


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I am losing a friend and it hurts
Can a friendship last forever, I wonder
The fear of losing is eating me up
Should friendship last to the end of time?
You should have held on, hold longer
Am at a lose

They say sweetest things never last
That we should be bold to let go
What has the start has to have an end
But it`s ending on me, ending is a curse
Am at a lose

My heart is not letting go
I have cherished the ties, to untie is not easy
It`s respect to grant ones choice; to grow
To build new circles of friendship
Lest you are branded a stalker
Am at a lose

I will be bold, I will try
Time is a healer, they say
God heals all the wounds with time
I`ll be forever grateful for the friendship
Your happiness will be my joy
Am at a lose

Once a friend, I believe always a friend
I am watching at a distance, happy that we met
Will be there as a shoulder to cry on
I promised to be forever a friend in need
For now, allow me to whine and cry for the lose
Am at a lose

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Posted by on October 17, 2014 in Uncategorized


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Love Vs Friendship


Between love and friendship
I’m waving like a lost ship.

Not needing more, but needing something
Not needing forever, but needing what we have.

You need to know
That I want to know
You for the rest of my life.

Between Doubt and certitude
How can I have such an attitude?

I no more bear the confusion
Tell me is it truth or illusion

I was dreaming when there came A strange feeling I can not name

I want to tell you
exactly how I feel
and that my feelings
are completely real.

I want to tell you
Tell you truly
With great intentions
and Loving desires

Inside only you can see
Like the door knows the key
Today it is clearly seen
In between I should have never been.

I need you to know
For many reasons
Reasons…?YES Reasons?
Reasons of Friendship
Friendship stronger than
Three words I.L.Y
Three words

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Posted by on July 28, 2014 in Uncategorized


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Sometimes a man’s purpose in a woman’s life is to help her become a better woman for some one else. A few months ago i was that girl who was convinced love is a war but now i also know you cannot fight alone. I have also learnt true love is not self seeking. You want the other party happy even if it is with some one else. Love covers a multitude of sins. If the other party start seeing the faults in you then maybe it’s a sign their love for you is fickle. Love is patient, love is kind, love is forgiving. To have this kind of love first your relationship with God has to be right, you have to love yourself and accept yourself then you can be able to love unconditionally. And letting go will be easy not because you do not love the other person but you love them enough to let them free. Because you are secure and you know your worth is not defined by someone but God. Personally i would rather loose someone if its not God’s will than do something that displeases God. If something or someone draws me away from God i do not need them in my life. If you are going through a heart break you have a choice to sulk in misery or to see it as a blessing in disguse. The choice is yours. Never forget God cares and loves you unconditionally.

Love makes you better

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Posted by on June 7, 2014 in Uncategorized


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A Friend in deed, I was just thinking of that phrase and wondered. What would my friends say about me? I am I that friend in deed? That friend they know they can call any time and I will be there for them. A friend who will stand the test of times: in good time and in bad time. Hmm! Or am i that unreliable friend who no one can count on. In my behavior do I reflect Christ, can someone say Mo is a Christian. I would hate to be a stumbling block.

I know the fact that it’s not by my own strength I need God in every area of my life. Most time God brings certain people in our life for a reason and if we care to notice they teach us important lessons. How many times do I (you can replace I with We ) choose friends based on maybe common interest, or based on common background don’t get me wrong I am not saying it wrong neither am I saying its right. We love with conditions. People who are like us, we given to those we know will give us back how about we change that? Love those who cannot love us back or whom we think are not loveable, our enemies. Help those who can’t help us back in return. Do random act of kindness we end up gaining a lot. Feel a lot a better.

I have thought of how many times I struggle to check up on people simply because I ask myself ‘’why should I be the one checking up on them?’’ my goodness when did I get to that point of keeping tabs. “Oh! I was the last one to call so they should also call me or text me.” What if they really need you and can’t afford to call you back, may God help me (Us) i love the way God has a funny sense of humor, you see I am that type of person who belief if we have not spoken in 6 months it used to be 3 months i delete your number. Most time definitely I will not have made an effort to contact you. And
I thank God he is not like us with our narrow-minded minds. If he would base His love on how often we talk to Him Through prayers none of us would qualify for His love.

I strive this year to be a friend not just in words but action. To be a loving girlfriend who loves without conditions or expecting anything in return. Not asking what can he do for me but what can I do for him. What can I add to his life? Not that I am perfect but I will try my best. Be a dependable friend to my friends. I will be that friend you can call at 2am when you need me and you can be sure they can count on me.

I have realized friendship is not something you learn in school. But if you haven’t learned the meaning of friendship you know nothing. I want to be that friend who instead of giving advice, solutions or cures, have chosen rather to share the pain and touch the wounds with a warm and tender hand. The only way to have a friend is be a friend to one.

1st Corinthians 13 gives us the best definition of love. If our love is short of that definition then we have a problem when we claim we love people, we do but with conditions. I will quote verse 4 “Love is patient and kind, it’s not jealous or conceited or proud, love is not ill-mannered or selfish or irritable, love does not keep a record of wrongs, love is not happy with evil but is happy with the truth. Love never gives up and its faith, hope and patience never fail. May God help me to love people unconditionally and when people see me they will see the Jesus in me.

true friendship



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Posted by on January 18, 2014 in Uncategorized


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