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Wedding on a budget


From my experience I can quite honestly say what ever your budget you can still have your dream wedding and plan it in less than 72 hours. if there is a preacher, a witness, and love is shared beyond anything imagined, everything else is extra Sometimes, I think of the line in the grinch story where he discovers that it is not all about the packages and gifts. The presents are in addition to the meaning; they do not take the place of the event. And so the same goes for weddings.  Love does not come because of gowns, veils, and flowers. It is not wrapped in ribbons and bows. It is not served on a platter with cake and icing. It is just a little bit more. .  If you are able to find a gown, don a tux, eat cake, smile with friends, and carry flowers without stressing over the extras, blessed will be your heart

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.  It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.  Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.  It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.

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Posted by on May 6, 2016 in Uncategorized


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Good bye

If by my presence I caused more hurt
Than that I caused while we were apart
Then adieu old friend, adieu
I must say goodbye to you

If in my silence I spoke more truth
Than when my words came through
I hope you listened to my silence
Unlike when you eschewed my words

If in being here I was away more
Than when I was away before
Then this goodbye I must say
Because I cant stay here anymore

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Posted by on December 12, 2015 in poem, Uncategorized


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There will be days


There will be days I will crave for your mere touch,
There will be days I will cringe from your touch,
There will be days I will seek you from the crowd,
There will be days your presence to me will be a crowd,
There will be a time your sight will be my light,
There will be a time your sight will bring fright,
There will be days I say;
But they are yet to come.

There will be days, days I will be engulfed by your warmth
Days I will be tickled by your breath,
Days I will be inspired by you,
Days I will not despair because of you.
Yet there will be days I will be disgusted by your cologne scent,
Days I will be put off by the bad breath and your accent,
Days you will be the cause of my despair,
Days you will dismantle my self esteem without repair,
There will be days I say;
But they are yet to come.

There will be days when we together shall face all,
There will be days when we united will be mortal
When bogged down by the burdens we will at them smile;
when my world will be shifted by a mere smile on your face for a while
But there will be days you will tumble my world with a single word
when your stare will cut me to pieces like a sword,
There will be days I say;
But they are yet to come.

These are the days that you I must admire,
Days that your desires I must sire,
Days that I must carry on this fire,
Days that I must be consumed by your affection’s ire
Day’s I must bear your love’s poured to the wire.
I must love you with all my heart,
I must dispel your hurt and adore you in my heart
For this day is here;
Lets embrace each other before the day clears!!

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Posted by on July 12, 2014 in Uncategorized


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A Friend in deed, I was just thinking of that phrase and wondered. What would my friends say about me? I am I that friend in deed? That friend they know they can call any time and I will be there for them. A friend who will stand the test of times: in good time and in bad time. Hmm! Or am i that unreliable friend who no one can count on. In my behavior do I reflect Christ, can someone say Mo is a Christian. I would hate to be a stumbling block.

I know the fact that it’s not by my own strength I need God in every area of my life. Most time God brings certain people in our life for a reason and if we care to notice they teach us important lessons. How many times do I (you can replace I with We ) choose friends based on maybe common interest, or based on common background don’t get me wrong I am not saying it wrong neither am I saying its right. We love with conditions. People who are like us, we given to those we know will give us back how about we change that? Love those who cannot love us back or whom we think are not loveable, our enemies. Help those who can’t help us back in return. Do random act of kindness we end up gaining a lot. Feel a lot a better.

I have thought of how many times I struggle to check up on people simply because I ask myself ‘’why should I be the one checking up on them?’’ my goodness when did I get to that point of keeping tabs. “Oh! I was the last one to call so they should also call me or text me.” What if they really need you and can’t afford to call you back, may God help me (Us) i love the way God has a funny sense of humor, you see I am that type of person who belief if we have not spoken in 6 months it used to be 3 months i delete your number. Most time definitely I will not have made an effort to contact you. And
I thank God he is not like us with our narrow-minded minds. If he would base His love on how often we talk to Him Through prayers none of us would qualify for His love.

I strive this year to be a friend not just in words but action. To be a loving girlfriend who loves without conditions or expecting anything in return. Not asking what can he do for me but what can I do for him. What can I add to his life? Not that I am perfect but I will try my best. Be a dependable friend to my friends. I will be that friend you can call at 2am when you need me and you can be sure they can count on me.

I have realized friendship is not something you learn in school. But if you haven’t learned the meaning of friendship you know nothing. I want to be that friend who instead of giving advice, solutions or cures, have chosen rather to share the pain and touch the wounds with a warm and tender hand. The only way to have a friend is be a friend to one.

1st Corinthians 13 gives us the best definition of love. If our love is short of that definition then we have a problem when we claim we love people, we do but with conditions. I will quote verse 4 “Love is patient and kind, it’s not jealous or conceited or proud, love is not ill-mannered or selfish or irritable, love does not keep a record of wrongs, love is not happy with evil but is happy with the truth. Love never gives up and its faith, hope and patience never fail. May God help me to love people unconditionally and when people see me they will see the Jesus in me.

true friendship



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Posted by on January 18, 2014 in Uncategorized


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There Are Men

There are men out there who will respond to your text messages. Men who will initiate conversations because they simply can’t wait to see what you’ll say next. There are men who will never be too busy or too preoccupied to wish you good morning, regardless if you’re a country or a block away. Men who remember to call when they say they will – because they want to – and those who surprise you with their curiosity about your sometimes monotonous days. There are men who aim to be the last person you talk to before you sleep and the first name you see on your screen when you rise. Men who show up on time – or even early – men who are genuinely excited to see you.

There are men who want to go on dates. Real dates. Men who want to take you out to their favorite…

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Posted by on January 15, 2014 in Uncategorized